Rabbi Sexual Abuse
Rabbi sexual abuse within the Jewish community has been swept under the rug for too long. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual abuse by a rabbi, Helping Survivors can help inform you of your legal rights and options.
Author: Kathryn Kosmides
Survivor Advocate
The issue of Jewish and rabbi sexual abuse is not new. Recent revelations have exposed the widespread problem of sexual abuse by clergy and leaders within religious communities.
Helping Survivors is here to assist survivors of rabbi sexual abuse and all types of sexual harm. The goal of our organization is to help inform survivors of their legal rights and provide educational resources for reporting and prevention. If you’ve been sexually abused by a rabbi, reach out to Helping Survivors today.
Sexual Abuse Within the Jewish Community
Sexual abuse within the Jewish community is an alarming reality. The abuse primarily targets vulnerable children, but the reputation rabbis hold as esteemed community members exacerbates the difficulty in proving these cases.
Additionally, incidents of abuse have been reported within Jewish schools, highlighting the pervasiveness of such misconduct within institutions across the community.
Victims may be able to pursue a minor sexual abuse lawsuit to seek justice.
How Victims Are Impacted by Sexual Abuse
The aftermath of sexual abuse leaves victims with deep emotional scars and lifelong issues. Common feelings and symptoms include:
- Anxiety
- Guilt
- Shame
- Loss of trust in others
Table of Contents
- Sexual Abuse Within the Jewish Community<a/a>
- How Victims Are Impacted by Sexual Abuse
- Survivor’s Testimonies and Accounts
- How Has the Jewish Community Responded?
- Filing a Civil Lawsuit After Rabbi Sexual Abuse
- Resources for Help Survivors of Sexual Abuse from a Rabbi
- Addressing Rabbi Sexual Abuse in the Jewish Community
- Want To Speak With A Lawyer?
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Many victims experience suicidal thoughts and develop substance abuse disorders later in life. The long-term psychological effects of sexual abuse, whether experienced in childhood or adulthood, can disrupt personal relationships, academic performance, career prospects, and overall well-being.
Barriers to Reporting Abuse
Specific factors within the Jewish Orthodox community make it exceptionally hard for victims to speak up. One significant cultural factor is the concept of “Mesirah,” which forbids reporting another Jewish community member to secular authorities, including the police. Additionally, in 2011, the Rabbinical Board of the Orthodox Jewish community stated a person must consult with a rabbi before reporting cases of sexual abuse to the authorities. These accepted cultural norms create a barrier for survivors seeking justice and protection.
Furthermore, victims who bravely came forward to report abuse faced severe repercussions, including being evicted from their homes and excommunicated from the synagogue. There is also the fear that reporting such incidents would result in family members receiving undesirable marriage candidates from matchmakers. These consequences create a chilling effect on other potential survivors, instilling fear and further silencing their voices.
Rabbi Sexual Abuse in the News
The stories of survivors who speak about their experiences shed light on the pervasive issue of rabbi sexual abuse.
In one case, Rabbi Daniel Greer was accused of sexually assaulting a male high school student for three years while attending Greer’s yeshiva. While Greer denied the charges, the victim received $15 million in his civil lawsuit and $5 million in punitive damages. Greer is now serving a 20-year sentence in jail.
After sexual misconduct allegations surfaced against him in 2021, former Temple Emanu-El Rabbi Sheldon Zimmerman was fired from his position.
Sexual abuse is not limited to a single country or location. A Jewish girl’s school principal in Australia was found guilty of sexual abuse after a nine-year legal battle. This shows how far-reaching sexual abuse in the Jewish community truly is.
Despite their challenges, survivors’ testimonies are crucial in creating awareness and dismantling the power dynamics that allowed these abuses to persist.
How Has the Jewish Community Responded?
In response to the issue of rabbi sexual abuse, there are several organizations raising awareness and supporting survivors. Notably, Za’akah stands at the forefront, dedicating itself to shedding light on sexual abuse within the Jewish community. Alongside Za’akah, Kol Tzedek, a Philadelphia-based synagogue, is also taking strides to address this pressing problem.
Despite these efforts, the social stigma surrounding sexual abuse in the Jewish community remains a formidable obstacle. This stigma discourages survivors from speaking out, perpetuating a cycle of silence that protects perpetrators and allows abuse to persist unchecked.
Filing a Civil Lawsuit After Rabbi Sexual Abuse
Experiencing sexual abuse—especially from someone in a trusted position, such as a rabbi— is profoundly traumatic. The decision to seek justice is deeply personal, but for many, it’s a step toward healing and preventing further harm.
What To Do After Abuse
If you or a loved one has suffered abuse, taking steps immediately helps preserve crucial evidence. Even if some time has passed, complete as many of the following steps as possible:
- Immediate Care: Prioritize your safety and well-being. If needed, seek medical attention and ensure you are in a safe environment away from the perpetrator.
- Preserve Evidence: Depending on the circumstances and how soon after the incident you’re taking action, see a medical professional to preserve any physical evidence of the abuse.
- Confide in Someone: Whether it’s a close friend, family member, or therapist, speaking about the trauma can be a significant step in the healing process. They may also provide essential support throughout any subsequent legal process.
- Report to Authorities: They will investigate the matter, which could lead to criminal charges against the perpetrator.
How to File a Civil Lawsuit
Filing a civil lawsuit will ensure the accused party is held responsible. This process can be complex, so it is wise to seek legal guidance. The following is a broad sketch of the process:
- Engage a Lawyer: It’s vital to have legal representation. Your attorney will investigate your case, collect evidence, draft and file a complaint, negotiate with the opposition, and litigate your case.
- Discovery: This is the phase where both sides gather and exchange evidence. This could include testimonies, documents, or expert opinions.
- Settlement or Trial: Many cases settle before going to trial. If both sides cannot agree on fair compensation, your case could go before a jury.
Reasons to File a Lawsuit
While no amount of money can truly compensate for the trauma suffered, filing a civil lawsuit can help in several ways:
- Compensation: Victims may be entitled to damages for medical expenses, therapy costs, lost income, pain and suffering, and more.
- Accountability: It holds the perpetrator and any enabling institutions responsible.
- Prevention: By bringing such cases to light, it may deter potential future abuse and bring about systemic change.
The legal process can be emotionally draining. Surround yourself with a support system to help navigate the journey toward justice and healing.
Resources for Survivors of Rabbi Sexual Abuse
If you or someone you know has experienced such abuse, some resources and organizations can help. One option is Mount Sinai Beth Israel, (212) 420-2000. The helpline offers culturally sensitive outreach and support for the Orthodox Jewish community.
For victims, reporting rabbi sexual abuse is intimidating. Survivors should speak to an empathetic, knowledgable attorney specializing in sexual abuse cases, like those partnered with Helping Survivors. Legal professionals can help with all aspects of the case, including the following:
- Identifying the defendant
- Determining fault
- Gathering evidence
- Building a case
- Filing paperwork
- Meeting the burden of proof
- Subpoenaing witnesses
At Helping Survivors, we have access to legal resources to help victims seek justice. We work across several time zones and help survivors across the U.S.
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